INTRODUCING… Chronicles of a Curvy Lady with Christelle! A daily column with content material creator and influencer, Christelle. That is your information to dwelling life to the fullest no matter your measurement or way of life!
Plus measurement content material creators usually face extra obstacles to the social media business. It’s more durable, however that doesn’t imply it’s inconceivable.
Right here’s 5 limiting beliefs I’ve needed to overcome to indicate up constantly on this area.
“I’m not engaging sufficient for social media.” — Limiting Perception No.1 for Plus Dimension Content material Creators
The wonder commonplace is consistently shifting, and fatphobia runs deep. Social media rewards the “prettiest” content material creators with probably the most “excellent” lives, however I’m right here to indicate the true, unfiltered journey. Screw the requirements. I do know my value isn’t tied to aesthetics. Even when the fatphobic idiots of the world don’t see it, I’m validated by God and myself. I believe I’m engaging which is de facto all that issues.
“I don’t have the ‘proper’ plus measurement form for full-body content material.” — Limiting Perception No.2 for Plus Dimension Content material Creators
There’s all the time a hierarchy. Similar to the light-skin vs. dark-skin debate, plus measurement our bodies are handled otherwise relying on the proximity to “societal acceptance.” Hourglass and pear-shaped figures are sometimes extra accepted than apple-shaped ones. It’s unfair, however I’ve discovered to make peace with my physique at each stage. There are individuals who have to see themselves represented in me. Once I really feel insecure about my arms, a swimsuit, or a crop high, I remind myself that the least fascinating factor about me is my physique sort.I’ve a lot extra to supply.
“I can’t put up about health till I shed some pounds.”— Limiting Perception No.3 for Plus Dimension Content material Creators
You possibly can’t please everybody…particularly whenever you’re fats. And for the file, fats is only a descriptor, not an insult. Folks can have opinions about your gymnasium outfit, your rolls, or the way you jiggle whenever you soar. Ignore them. Transfer your physique since you adore it, not since you hate it. Or don’t. Do no matter makes you really feel good. In case you don’t wish to shed some pounds, don’t let anyone’s self-hating projection make you’re feeling unhealthy about your self. Take up area in individual, on-line, within the gymnasium, on the perform, wherever you go. You should be seen.
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“I’m invisible to males, so one thing have to be fallacious with my content material.” — Limiting Perception No.4 for Plus Dimension Content material Creators
It’s simple to fall into the lure of making for the male gaze when society virtually circumstances us to take action. Some plus measurement girls thrive in courting, however that hasn’t been my actuality. I’ve felt missed, rejected, and made to imagine I’d by no means be “the prize.” However as a substitute of dwelling on who doesn’t see me, I deal with the ladies who do. My platform is a secure area for many who really feel totally different and have been made to imagine they aren’t sufficient. Would I prefer to be desired romantically? In fact. However I gained’t waste my power proving my value to individuals who refuse to see it. Interval.
“I shouldn’t get my hopes up about working with manufacturers.”— Limiting Perception No.5 for Plus Dimension Content material Creators
It’s 2025. Manufacturers prioritizing DEI needs to be the norm, not the exception. Sadly, that’s not the case. However I refuse to play small. Once I pitch to manufacturers as a plus measurement content material creator, I do it confidently, not simply due to my expertise, however as a result of mindset issues. In case you anticipate issues to be laborious, they will be laborious. That’s to not dismiss actual obstacles, however anticipating rejection is a trauma response. And I’m within the enterprise of therapeutic. What about you?
Who am I? — Might I be your new favourite plus measurement content material creator?
I’m Christelle. I’ve been creating content material lengthy earlier than it was the “it lady” factor. And I’ve been the plus measurement lady for even longer. My journey with self-love and confidence has had highs and lows, however sharing my life has helped me take up area. Even for those who don’t wish to be a plus measurement content material creator, I hope you cease making your self small. Life will attempt to maintain you again—don’t be one of many issues that does.
That is my first article of this nature in years. If you would like extra, discover me on YouTube, Instagram, and TikTok: @christelleangelexo.
See you quickly for extra Chronicles of a Curvy Lady.
I’m excited! Are you?
